The 4:20 – The Meaning Of Matthew Shepard + Adam Lambert

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Today on the show in honour of Matthew Shepard‘s mother Judy joining us in less than an hour, we are asking you where it is you see homophobia the most.  In case you don’t know, Matthew was brutally murdered in Laramie, Wyoming just over ten years ago at age 21, a homophobic act that is still as appalling to me today as it was the first time I heard about it.

Your answers so far range from witnessing homophobia on the streets to in your schools, in the movies and television we watch, and some of you have written in to say you experience it from your own families in your own home.

Juxtaposed with this is something alive and kicking from my day yesterday when I met and interviewed Adam Lambert.  Just posting a few Tweets during the time I spent with him has set off an avalanche of replies and re-tweets, and the photos I’ve posted of us up on my blog have been met with great response and have started to go viral.  Amazing.  Amazing because so much of Lambert’s fan base are teenagers and young adults, and it’s these people who have lit up my Twitter page and blog in the last twenty four hours.  They don’t care that he’s gay, they love that he’s flamboyant, and they see it as a wonderful example that this person lives his life authentically.

As you’ll hear when we chat with Judy Shepard, homophobia is taught first in the home, and so when I think of all these people who are loving the very out, very queer Adam Lambert and think that they will one day have families and homes where they will be teaching the next generation about love and hate, it’s such a beacon of hope, to me, anyway, that perhaps Matthew’s death really did have meaning, that the wonder that is Judy Shepard has done a world of good and that the likes of Adam Lambert and all those who follow him can lead their lives free from any specter of hate.

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  • inscrutable7

    Thank you so much for the Twitter postings and photo montage. I’ve retweeted your postings to my followers.

    I just want to expand on something you said~

    Our support for Adam is even greater than you stated in your post, not only do many of us “not care” that Adam is gay, we LOVE that he is gay. He wouldn’t be who is if he wasn’t gay!

    I know that some people probably “don’t care,” and that’s it, but many of us embrace and celebrate him for exactly who he is! I hope that Adam understands that so many of us feel that way about him!

  • Christiana

    I love your article about Matthew Shepard. I’ve not forgotten his life and death. I agree wholeheartedly how wonderful it is, that so many people young and older (Adam has many more older fans than teenage) embrace Adam with love. It’s not that Adam being gay doesn’t matter to us, it’s more unconditional than that. We love him in his entirety! That makes me as happy and hopeful as you are for future generations!

  • Derek

    Thanks for having Judy on the SPS show today and doing this coverage.

    I’d like to post it with your permission to my facebook (and credit you) and here’s why.

    Judy is right, some of the younger generation don’t even know about this story. I recently left a bar with a friend who saw a poster advertising Judy Shepard’s upcoming (tonight’s) speech at York University and asked me “Who’s Judy Shepard?”

    There we go, we need to keep Mathew’s story alive and in people’s minds.

    Thanks,

    Derek

  • Mariel

    I love Adam so much and I am a straight-christian girl but I know that your sexual preferences has nothing to do with your talent.

  • Kris

    Knowing Mathew’s story(I’m sitting here with tears rolling down my face looking at that sweet picture of him), and having read so many internet blog posts filled with hatred and filth directed at Adam, makes me fear for him. You asked where we had seen the most homophobia? Since Adam has become such a sensation, and provoked controversy with his openness and lack of inhibitions, the crap I have read on the internet has appalled me. I had no idea there was still so much ignorance, bigotry and homophobia in our country. Mathew’s death did bring awareness and change, but we have far yet to go. I read a post today that said that he hoped, oh, never mind, I can’t repeat it. But I just hope Adam takes care for his safety. Like me, he has been surrounded with enlightened, accepting people, and unfortunately, he needs to be aware that their are haters out there and take safeguards for his security. He is so loved by so many. And Mrs. Shepard, I will never forget Mathew.



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